How to Be a Good Boyfriend

Just as with men, every woman is unique and has her own language for love:  She has her own words and actions that she recognizes as being signs that you love her.  This having been said, there is also a universal language when it comes to women in general and what makes them feel loved, appreciated and desired.

Some of these things include:

1 - Showing her you care: Women love affection, but don’t overdo it by hanging off her every move.  A light brush of her back here or holding her hand there will let her know you feel comfortable and want to be close to her.
 

2 - Do some things she likes to do:  If she loves art, take her to an art gallery.

3 - Maintaining honesty:  Men have to remember that regardless of a woman’s reaction, it is most important to tell the truth.  It is  for her to choose how she responds to your honesty and if you are tactful you will probably be pleasantly surprised. 

4 - Express your issues:  If something is bothering you or you had a bad day, tell her.  Don’t sit and brood silently.

5 - Respect her perspective and emotions:  Everyone knows women are way more emotionally reactive than men, so relax and let her be a woman!  If you want someone unemotional, date a man!  Otherwise listen and when appropriate, show empathy:  Empathy is saying something like “that must have been hard for you” and then you could follow with “but you seem to be dealing with it very well considering”.  This is so much better than “I think you are over-reacting a bit here honey” or “don’t worry, it’ll be fine”.

6 -  Surprise her:  Give her gifts, no matter how small, on days that aren’t particularly special.

7 - Don’t be aloof:  Whether your woman is talking to you about her day or complaining about the socks you left on the floor, don’t tune out and become unresponsive.  It is actually bad manners and rude behavior and you wouldn’t react that way if anyone else was talking to you, so don’t do it with your partner.  You can compare it to how you enjoy relaying the goings-on at an exciting football game when you arrive home.

8 - Compliment her when you mean it:  If you think to yourself that your girlfriend looks nice today, say it out loud.  When you know she is having her hair or nails done, compliment her on it when you see her next.

9 - Play and tease her for fun:  Every now and then have a tickle competition and let her win, wrestle lightly for fun or even chase her around the house.  Women love to giggle and play, regardless of how old they are.

If you make sure you incorporate all of the above into your relationship, you should have a happy girlfriend who feels confident she has found herself a good man.  It really doesn’t take much to be a good boyfriend, the problem has just been so many men had no idea how to go about it.  Now you have the tools, there are no excuses, so start planning your next move today.

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