How to Become a Guy Magnet
If you are tired of meeting all the losers and married men who are looking for a good time, maybe you need to take a look at what everyone else sees.
First of all, look at the way you dress. Is it too provocative? Do you need a whole new wardrobe? It is all right to look sexy but don’t carry it too far. You need to do it in a demure way. Don’t dress with all your assets viewable. If you are worried about your weight get some tips from the professionals on how to dress to downplay certain areas and optimize your good features. There are all kinds of magazines that can help you do this as well as web sites that offer these types of advice.
Look at your hairstyle. Is it outdated? Have you worn the same hairstyle since high school? Check out some new cuts that will compliment your face. There are various places that you can choose what shape your face is and add cuts to see which would look the best and bring out your best features. If your hair is turning gray or just needs a more vibrant color consider a rinse or highlight. Women of all ages need to feel they look their best and a new haircut and color can do wonders for making you feel better.
Don’t overdo or under do your makeup. Too much make up can make you look older and like a clown. Subtle colors of eyeshadow and blush are what looks more natural and can highlight good features such as the eyes and cheek bones. Also use a lip liner or lip gloss that goes with your complexion. Avoid bright colors as they tend to scream made up.
Pay attention to personal hygiene. You don’t have to drown yourself in perfume. Wear pleasant, not overpowering scents. Make sure your nails are clean and manicured. You can do this yourself without spending a fortune at a salon. Teeth whiteners are available over the counter that do an excellent job to help you show off that great smile. Use a good lotion on your skin. Guys like a girl with soft skin. Even if you have a job that requires a lot of abuse to your hands use a good skin softener that adds moisture so your hands don’t feel like sandpaper.
Be a good listener. Guys like women who want to listen. That doesn’t mean you have to sit for hours while they drone on about themselves. Just make sure that you listen to things that they consider important. Don’t drone on about yourself for hours either. When getting to know someone it doesn’t hurt to ask about family and such but they don’t want to hear what happened to your aunt Hilda in 1973. Unless of course she won a lottery or something of that nature. There’s plenty of time for extended family history if the relationship progresses.
Don’t let a guy get too familiar on the first date or the first few dates. Wait until you see just how interested you are in each other. A lot of men are obviously out for one thing and that is not what you are looking for. Set the ground rules up front and go out with friends so you can get their reaction. If you suspect that he doesn’t want to be seen in public with you, there’s a good reason for it. Either he is married or he doesn’t want a relationship, he just wants a good time.
One or the other, it doesn’t matter, that is not what you are looking for. This is especially true if he doesn’t want to meet your friends or parents. On the other hand, some guys don’t care. They will do whatever you want to do if it means they will get their end result. So trust your feelings and don’t assume that just because he doesn’t mind meeting family and close friends that he is the perfect one.
It is important to have some common interests. You don’t have to like everything he likes to be compatible. But if you hate everything he is interested in, don’t pretend to like it just to please him. Likewise if he doesn’t share your enthusiasm for something it is going to be hard to do things together. If there is not some common ground for you to meet on and share experiences and interests it is going to be virtually impossible to be a couple.
There are many ways to become a guy magnet however one of the most important ones is to be yourself.
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