How to Make Yourself Irresistible to Guys

Be yourself. This is another way of saying, Don't try to be someone you're not. Guys may be dense a lot of the time, but they certainly can zone in on someone who tries too hard to get attention. Some guys ignore the trying-hard fakes, others, well, let's say they're not above taking advantage of what's on offer. In your heart of hearts, you don't really want to end up as either, now do you?

Be warm. Okay, this may cancel itself out under the item "Be Yourself," especially when it turns out that you're actually quite cold. But think of it as an improvement on who you are. You don't have to be everybody's best friend, but think about people you've talked to that made an impression on you, aren't they the ones who take the time to really listen and consider what you have to say? That's a lot of warmth, right there.

Find things to do. Another improvement to who you are - find a hobby or something to be passionate about. It will not only make you a more rounded person, but will also give you less time to worry about being irresistible to guys. We're serious! Most of the time, girls who don't even think about guys are attracting them like ants to sugar. Of course, there's such a thing as overdoing it. Think Alyson Hannigan and her "One time, in band camp" character in American Pie.

Wear clothes that look good on you. Don't try to squeeze into that tank top if it will make you look like the Michelin Man. Instead, look for clothes that will make you look good and feel comfortable. If you're worried about how much skin you're baring, chances are you're not going to enjoy your night out very much and other people will see that. But if you pick an outfit that makes you look good and feel good, you'll be strutting your stuff with pride and turn everyone's heads.

Fix yourself up. This includes regimens to improve your health and beauty regimens like choosing a new foundation, getting into an exercise program and eating a high-fiber diet. A Miss Venezuela once won the Miss Universe crown by replying to the final question regarding whether she would rather have beauty or intelligence, "I choose intelligence, because if I really am smart enough, I'd know how to make myself beautiful as well." So smarten up and make yourself beautiful, too!

Like who you are. If you don't like who you are and what you do, go and change it. You are the captain of your universe, my friend. How can you make other people like you if you don't think you're all that? Most of the time, though, you don't have to change anything, you just have to see what it is about you that's so great, then play it up. The best makeover is one that heightens and highlights all your assets, without involving complicated surgery.

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